If anyone has any advice, please share!

Basically, I have to choose between two guys. I just started my first semester of college. One is going to the same college as me and we are currently friends with benefits. He is very nice, respectful, and funny. The kicker is that he is stuck on his ex, whom he broke up with very recently after a two year relationship. I think he is moving towards being over her, but I’m worried he needs more time. The second guy lives one state away from me. I met him through some friends I graduated with. We were FaceTimeing one night and they introduced me to their roommate. He and I hit it off and have been talking and FaceTimeing quite often. He is also very nice and respectful and has similar goals and values as I do. He also knows what he wants and doesn’t want to play any games. He is pretty well off financially and wants to buy me a plane ticket to come visit him in a few weeks. That scares me as I have only been on a plane once when I was six and also my parents are very strict and would almost definitely disapprove. I don’t think I’m in any danger other than that though, as I have known his roommates since elementary school and they all have assured me that he’s a good guy. I feel really bad about talking to both of these guys at once and I’m stressing about making a decision. I don’t want to hurt either of them.