I need advice with a relationship .
I’ve been with a man for almost 3 years and we were planning our future , I was looking for houses with him, he told me he wanted to marry me and engage me he bought a ring showed me and was saving it for right moment he got a tattoo for me. I did as well. 2 days ago he decided to leave me. By text message. I was destroyed. His reason is that he wants to see his family more and I’m not letting him see his parents enough because they don’t like me and I don’t like them. But does that give him the right to leave me? I’m willing to work with him , I said he can see his family whenever he wants to . I said I won’t always go but he can go. Should I give him a chance if he choose to leave me over his family? He’s not good at talking but I feel he should of talked about this instead of just leave me. What should I do is he worth staying with?
@irockpeasonmyhead Probably best to move on i am sorry he did this you deserve better
Hello! I am so sorry as I know this must be very hard and hurtful! 😢 I will be praying for you! God can help you even through your hardest difficulties! There is no pit so deep that God is not deeper still.
I almost had a similar issue, and during the month of when our wedding was supposed to be no less (still just engaged). I gave my person a chance because he was mainly overwhelmed and confused on what was the right choice. Give him a chance only if he genuinely talks to you about the situation and is open to options. If he's stubborn thinking it's one or the other and feels no remorse choosing them over what could be his new family then you're better off leaving things as they are no matter how much it hurts. He needs to be willing to compromise and he will if he genuinely cares about you. Otherwise he's making choices based solely on the opinion of others and that will never work out in the long run.
I almost didn’t marry my husband because I didn’t like his parents. It would not have been a bad decision. It shows a lot that he proposed and then changed his mind. Be GLAD he told you he ch ages his mind. Don’t try to make him want to be with you. I broke off my engagement and he told me not to and I got back with him and married him. I should have stayed single. Again, be GLAD he is showing you his true feelings. It says a lot of what your future together would be like. And in reality you can’t always hide form his family. When you’re married and have kids and spend holidays together you’ll want to go to be with your kids and you’ll have to see them. That’s the way it is with us. Not fun. Good luck!