In need of help.....
Well.... I have been speaking casually with a woman and we get along amazingly.... the issue is that we both dont want any serious commitments and being personally obligated to each other. We have an amazing intimate connection and we speak openly to each other ( id like to think ). The issue is altough we dont want anything serious... i find myself in a different level... I try to find the smallest chance of meeting her... to be alone and speak to her whilst also spending time with her..... she seems to be uncomfortable by it but i m uncomfortable by the fact that to be alone is getting to be something to plan and also usually these plans fail. We usually get intimate after partying involving alcohol and it seems to be turning into a pity intimate connection. weve said we love each other but even this seemed hasty for the moment... probably was exitement.... dunno... but i find myself in very stressful moments.... in need of help....
If she told you that she doesn’t want anything serious then I don’t think there’s much you can do right now. She was honest and you knew what she wanted when you started this relationship. I think that the more you try and do romantic/loving things with her the more uncomfortable she will get and she will eventually leave. I think the best thing to do is to relax. You two are having fun so there’s no need to make it uncomfortable. Just be good to her, respect her, have fun with her, and make her happy. I think that with time, as long as you don’t pressure her, then she may want to have a serious relationship. Good luck!