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Is there something wrong with me?

User Profile: finodair
finodair April 9th, 2021

Hi everyone. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. We love each other and love spending time together. Everything is great and we're planning our future together. However, since the beginning of our relationship, there's been one problem. I often feel like having sex or some kind of sexual activity with him, while he is not that into it. I'm the type of person that likes to do some kind of sexual activity as icing on the cake after other activities. For example, I went with my boyfriend on a walk today, we enjoyed spending the day in the nature, and I suggested we do something later in the nearby woods. He smiled and later ignored it. Or, he often rejects my offer to have sex in the evening. Things like that.. We talked several times about it, but it barely got better. Whatsmore, I feel like I'm putting pressure on him sometimes, which maybe makes him even more reluctant to having sex. Am I being too needy? Is it normal to want to do sexual activities so often (every day or every other day)? I'll share more details or examples if needed.

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User Profile: optimisticDay8079
optimisticDay8079 April 12th, 2021

@finodair seems like you just have a high sex drive and your boyfriend doesnt

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User Profile: finodair
finodair OP April 12th, 2021

Is it possible to change our sex drives so that we meet in the middle (without me feeling dissatisfied or him feeling pressured)?

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User Profile: Ithinkitstoolateforme
Ithinkitstoolateforme April 17th, 2021

I’m in the same boat, been with my guy for 6 years. He just ended it yesterday. I think it’s normal wanting sex often, we’ve both cheated on each other for some years now, he would watch porn all the time, my thing is why wouldn’t he want the real thing instead of a hand?