Is this verbal abuse?
So , im going to try not to make this to long. Long story short me and my partner been in a argument for the last 5 hours or so, though out the whole entire time they was cursing me out, being sarcastic, low key Insulting my Intelligent, yelling at me, Slamming Their hands really hard on different surfaces. I Try to have a reasonable conversation with them but I Eventually stay quiet because they was getting more aggressive and Angry at me. I feel like I'm walking on eggshells right now.
Definitely verbal abuse, and definitely wrong. He sounds like he gets really angry which is ok to be angry but not ok to yell at you for 5 hours! And it's going to get worse the longer he thinks it's ok to keep doing it. Be assertive and set boundaries! Try telling him that if he is going to yell and swear etc, you are gong for a 10 minute walk to let him calm down and get his anger under control and you can continue talking when he's not yelling and slamming things.. Then just walk out, don't stay and argue you aren't asking his permission to not be abused you are telling him he doesn't get to abuse you. He might get more angry but that's the only way to potentially stop it. If he keeps doing it, it's time to end that relationship so he can focus on getting help for his anger issue. Hopefully he learns how to control his anger when he talks to you.
