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Judgment when you’re in a LDR (Long Distance Relationship)

User Profile: TheJenInBlack
TheJenInBlack February 20th, 2021

The amount of judgment I get when I’m on here talking about my LDR is absolutely ridiculous. I don’t ask for much, just respect. I just came from a bogus sharing circle where I started off with saying please don’t judge and that I am struggling. Everyone kept interrupting my share, telling me to just break up with him and I should be independent. And because this app is one big glitch since the update, I wasn’t able to talk because my messages wouldn’t send, due to the fact that everyone had to put in their two cents. And then when my “time was up” I was like I didn’t finish (saying this to the mod, and yes we talked about this after so it’s resolved now, but) my messages were deleted during someone else’s share. All I said was no I’m not coming back to share again and okay bye. And they got deleted. There was even this rando during my share who was making a joke about my name. Making a song out of it. And did that get deleted? No! I know I probably sound really ungrateful because this is a free app. But all I wanted was for someone to listen. I always get judgment when I say I’m in a LDR. It’s awful. I’m already going through so much. I don’t need this.

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User Profile: 0m
0m February 20th, 2021

@TheJenInBlack

I'm sorry to read that you had such an awful experience when you tried to share. I'm glad you were able to talk to the mod and sort it out later. You are absolutely right, this is a safe space and you deserve respect.

Please feel free to message me if you'd like to share or talk, I'd be happy to listen.

Best wishes!