Long distance
I have been a long distance relationship for 8 years almost. I feel like he doesn’t understand me. He will do everything the opposite just to get at me and teach me a lesson. If we are good then there are sparks but god forbid if I ask or say something, it’s an instant problem for him. He cheated on me twice. One was texting and second was sleeping. I still have trust issues and if I tell him it’s going to take time, he gets frustrated. Like he wants me to switch the button to off and be magically okay. I don’t know if this is the life I wanted for me.
Long distance can be really hard, especially for long periods of time. Only you know what’s best for you but you might want to ask yourself some questions: Is this relationship sustainable without trust? What is the long term goal of this relationship? Does the relationship make you happy? If not, does it realistically have the potential to? It’s important to keep in mind what your partner is capable of doing and what you wish they could do.
