Lost
So confused on how to feel or if the way I'm looking at things is all wrong. I got married to first child's father back in 2012 and we separated in 2015 and divorced finalized 2016. I started a relationship in the middle of 2015 and despite knowing he was cheating I stayed with him. He was amazing to my children. We got married June of 2019 after finding out he was cheating yet again just before. Now it's January of 2021 and I feel like he thinks of me as only a maid since I'm a stay at home mom of 5 children because of the cost of daycare and he always tells me that he gets to make all financial decisions because he's the one with the real job and not me. My sister in law tells me that I should leave and start over on myself and my children. I'm just looking for what others who arnt close to my relationship to give me any advice and what they would do in my situation.
It's a tough decision to make on what to do, but it also sounds like there is a lot going on as well. It sounds that you not happy in this relationship that you have with each other but also that you're the one dealing with the child all the time as well. It really comes down to what you think is best but also what you can do to support yourself as well.