Love is hard...

@wonderingal Sounds like you are struggling with the relationship, but that you feel like it may be worth working to fix. I'm going to repeat something that I just shared with someone else. I try to remember that a healthy relationship is a sandwich. The two pieces of bread are respect and trust, and the filling in the middle that makes it delicious? That's communication. When both parties are willing to work on those three things, all the rest becomes easy. The thing is, the communication part is often the hardest thing to start doing consistently. It seems like when we hide how we feel and get our feelings hurt, that's when resentment and confusion start to build. Even when it's uncomfortable, sometimes getting our feelings out there in the open is the best way to find a solution. I hope that you find some answers, gal. Take care.

I will not advise you to abandon your relationship, although this is my usual advice. I can recommend you visit site so that those people who are in a similar situation can evaluate your case. I have long forced myself to understand and accept that I can make the wrong choice. But I must understand this and leave in time. That's how it was in my first marriage.