Lying in a relationship
I really don’t know where to begin but I’ll keep it brief. My boyfriend of 2 years has started to lie to me about things. And today I just found messages to a girl that he had gone out of his way to delete and hide from me. Where do I go from here? It has broken me
@Insecuresally123
Sorry about that, it must be very hurt. He may have a good reason or purely cheating? What do you want to do next? No matter what, here will support you. You deserve an answer or better. Wish you the best.
Hello Sorry to hear about that. Lying and cheating can hurt the hurt. Are you prepare to move on from this or work it out? The choice is yours .
The thing is, he has always promised to never do that sort of stuff. And I preach about honestly and not doing anything behind my back! He said he would never hurt me or cheat on me but that I pushed him too far and I pushed him to do that? He also wasn’t apologetic and said I was to ‘get over it’ and that my reaction of crying was OTT and that I’m psycho. He’s making out his chosen actions are my fault?!
That is unacceptable! His behavior is unacceptable. He is a narcissist and you guys have trauma bounding. Be strong. We got you.
The thing is. Now I know he can lie and hide things from me... what do I even believe? How long has he been able to lie to me? He’s not even remorseful
Hello, You have to think about your happiness and your next steps in the relationship.
