Men looking at other women
Ok so my partner and I have been dating a month but he keeps mentioning all the time about how hot the women on TV are. It's really starting to make me feel insecure and I'm really struggling to watch TV with this guy because now I'm just like .. I bet he's thinking she's hot. He even goes as far as saying their bodies are perfect. Is this normal behaviour and am I just a bit weird for thinking this is disrespectful. I've never met a man so vocal about how hot women are. This is also effecting us now in all situations because I'm constantly thinking hes just looking at women even off TV. Am I just being ridiculous. Is this normal in a relationship?
I have the same issue with my bf except he is never vocal about it . I just always catch him checking people out and I think it’s so disrespectful and makes me feel so insecure . I know and he’s even admitted to doing it before . Now he always denies doing even . But I know when I look at him I can see where he’s looking . It just has started to make me feel so bad and like I’m crazy
It truly messes with your head. This is causing huge damage to the relationship. He has stopped doing it since I said but now it's really stuck in my head and watching TV or anything with him is just horrible because its all I can.niw think about. I know he looks at girls whilst out but he says its OK to admire someone's beauty as that's all it is. Apparently it's no different to admiring a beautiful painting according to him.
My bf says he doesn’t know why he does he’s just so used to doing it . And I’ve heard people say that that’s all it is too . But does that really make it ok ? I’ve been told a lot that that’s just how men are. And a lot of times these women look nothing like us . They have bigger breasts or a bigger bum or are dressed with very little clothing and showing too much .
I think with your situation, if you've addressed it and he's still doing it, that's disrespectful. He can't help it, yes he can help it. He controls his mind and where his eyes go. To say you can't help it to me just sounds like a cop out. I agree men do look and Im not sure you will ever find one that doesn't but a mere quick glance to a full on stare is a bit different. Also doing it repeatedly to just a few one offs is a bit different. I dont by the whole I can't help it.. maybe a man will answer the thread and let us know lol. Why are men such pervs lol. What's wrong with them lol.
Lol I was talking to a listener recently who was a man and I asked , do all men check out women all the time and he said yes . I asked why and he said he didn’t know . Idk what it is .
Because they are the weaker sex... thats my conclusion to that lol. Weak minded human beings men . Lol. This is probably bad advice but have you ever flipped it. Have you ever tried looking at men like he does and see how he feels about it?
I have tried but he never noticed I was lol .
