My boyfriend doesn’t care anymore about our intimacy
I recently voiced my concern to my boyfriend about his lack of interest in making sure my needs our met in our intimate time. In response he said that it makes him irritated that I feel insecure because if it. He said that when I’m emotional I am unattractive. Now he is also claiming to no longer engage I’m intimacy. I don’t know what to do anymore because he feels betrayed if I try and satisfy myself.
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Ask him why, and what you can do to make him be intimate with you again. Guys always love being physical, so if they refuse they must have a good solid reason for it. Ask him calmly and without being emotional. Guys usually will become defensive when girls become emotional. So be calm.
About your own need, tell him that you need to satisfy yourself and it he cant do it then you have to do it yourself. I mean you’re an adult, you have the power over yourself. If he doesn’t want to do it then he shouldn’t feel betrayed if you do it yourself. You have your own needs and you are responsible to fulfill those needs, not him. I mean it’s great if he want to fulfill it, but if he don’t want to then no choice do it yourself. Don’t ignore your own needs because someone else ignores it. You have to advocate for yourself. Straight up your crown, queen ❤️
