My boyfriend is paranoid
Hey guys I'd really appreciate if you could help me with how to treat a paranoid person.. both me and my boyfriend know that he is paranoid and he wants that to be fixed because we argue all the time.. he asked me to help him and find things that might help and I'm willing tocdo anything to help him..
If you know any tips and tricks please let me know also if you have more things we can discuss please feel free to send me dm..
I really love him and i want the best for him.
@BlackAngelOnEarth
Hi!
I understand it's a hard situation to be in for both of you, but it's really good that both you and your boyfriend acknowledge that there is a problem, that's the first step to overcoming it.
If him being paranoid is causing your relationship to suffer, maybe you could talk to him about seeking professional help if him being paranoid is causing you to fight often?
He actually asked for my help because he thinks that going to a professional is useless.. I made a small progress which is really good. I found some therapies and he is now on even if he didn't notice. We don't fight like we used to be, I'm sending him even more messages although I know he can't answer because he is studying for university but because of that he opened up even more to me and I'm really happy about how this is going.
As I said the progress is not so big but it's only the beginning and I'm sure he can do a lot more.
Thanks a lot for your comment 😊
Hey @blackangelonearth, being paranoid is not usually something that a non professional can help with and my first advise would be to get him a professional so he can do a proper diagnostic and decide it’s the disorder or just traits of personality. At the moment what you can do is usually keep them aware of what you’re doing and why you’re doing things so their mind doesn’t take them to the suspicion mode however it’s important to understand if we’re talking about the disorder this might not be effective.
hope this helps!!
Well actually he doesn't want to visit a professional so I did some research and found some therapies which actually work. Thanks a lot for your comment 😊
