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User Profile: plumHouse4523
plumHouse4523 September 12th, 2021

So I am single ever since and I just want to try/take chances with my best friend (he is a guy), you know give it a shot something like that. But I don't know how. I really look like an average person, I think no one wants to be with me (romantically).

My friends tell me that I am good at giving out advices and always tells me why am I still single.

But the truth is, I don't understand what I am feeling, if do I want someone to love or am I just in love with the idea of being in love.

I really feel alone like emotionally alone although I am surrounded by my family and friends I think there is always something missing inside.

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User Profile: CheeryMango
CheeryMango September 13th, 2021

I can understand the feelings of uncertainty as to how things will go but we can't realize think about them if this is something you would like to try. It would be good if you are able to find the confidence in yourself to pursue the possibility of being in a relationship. It may be a good thing for you. There's more to you than being an average person.

User Profile: SamuelGreen
SamuelGreen September 16th, 2021

Try to look inside yourself. Did you make this decision because you really feel more than friendship, or do you think there are no other options? The cost of a mistake is a minus friend. I would suggest you dig this about using dating sites. I have had many examples of people finding new friends and boyfriends through these sites. You can just make a questionnaire and look at the participants' profiles. See who will like it, try chatting. If all your thoughts will still return to your friend, then you will know for sure that this is not just that.