Online dating - unsure what to do next
Hey everyone!
I met a potential date through a dating app. We are now texting on telegram and made plans to meet.
However, I'm really confused on where we are now. So if you have faced experiences like this or if you have an insight on where this relationship is going, would it be okay to share with me?
To date, we have cancelled 4 dates in total:
1. he had exams
2. my mum got shingles
3. I got chickenpox
4. he thought the date was postponed since I was feeling under the weather. He also fell sick on the day itself.
I have asked him to suggest another date and I'll make time for him. However, he did not recommend another day to meet.
A bit of background on us
- We have been talking every day for 2 months.
- We greet each other every morning and before bed
- Occasionally, he would update me that he just left work or has plans to go out with his friends.
Thank you for time and stay safe! 💕
I would try to suggest a date or meet up one more time. If he doesn't respond to it, then maybe just continue talking as friends and continue trying to meet other people. You don't want to put all of your energy on more person, in case it doesn't work out. Online dating can be pretty hit or miss, especially nowadays. I wish you good luck though. Stay positive and don't give up. Eventually, the right person will come along.
@Humurousowl hmm if he keep's bailing on you i think its red flags i would move on he clearly is too busy for a relationship if he was interested he would make time.