Putting him first
I have a strong woman mentally so bad that I inadvertently put others first because of fear of losing what I want. He has grown resentment toward me. I love him and want us to work out but my actions say otherwise. How do I put him first without loosing my win identity. He is about 8 years older than me. I am self sabotaging this relationship on purpose?
This sounds so much like what im going through . In my relationship I feel like I am the alpha of you will and I have limited what my bf can and can’t do . He has always grown resentment towards me and I realized that I am sabotaging my relationship on purpose just because of my own insecurities that have no real reason behind them . He’s a great guy and respects me but I have shown him that I just don’t trust him and I feel like I can never let my guard down with him . It’s been ruining our relationship and I had to put him first and apologize for being this way . I really feel like it sucks because I feel like I can’t let him disrespect me but I also shouldn’t control everything he does