Relationship issues fiancé
Me and my fiancé fight like cats and dogs he never tells me shit but I have to tell him everything or it’s a fight even if I text my mom I have to tell him about it or if I stopped for gas or etc. but if I question him about something he did he flips shit on me. He just flipped out on me for taking his id when he gave it to me and told me to keep it in my wallet now it’s in there and he needs it and so he jumped on me. Instead of asking me what is on it that he needs or waiting till I get off work he fought with me about it. And now I feel like I’m nothing. I do not like this type of relationship but I don’t want to leave him. What.can we do ?
This does not sound like a healthy relationship or start to a marriage. He sounds very controlling and immature. Please look into narcissistic abuse and emotional abuse, and trauma bonding to see if any of that applies to your relationship and reasons for not wanting to leave him. If so, please seek support in moving on, healing and knowing what to seek in a healthy relationship in the future.
I was in a relationship kinda similar to you. It didn't make me feel great and im still not okay from it but you aren't doing anything wrong. You tell your partner things not as a report but because you want to share it with them. I would say think about the big picture. Can you talk to him about this calmly to figure it out or will you just have to bear through it? Think about what you want in the relationship...do whats best for you. You can try to talk to him but know your not stuck in the situation you have a say.