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Should I apologize to my ex or I let it go.

User Profile: carefulTalker2440
carefulTalker2440 May 6th, 2021

So this guy and I dated in 2018, it was not a long relationship but the bond and connection we had was unbelievable and I’ve never had a connection close to that with anyone but I messed it up and I hurt him a lot. I’ve been feeling really bad about it and I’d want to tell him that I’m sorry for hurting him and all that. Not because I want us back but because I feel like he deserves an apology but I’m scared that he hates me. I don’t know what to do but I’ve been wanting to apologize for the longest time but I’ve just never been sure if it’s a good idea or not

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User Profile: Whimsical08
Whimsical08 May 7th, 2021

This feels like a sign. I've been asking myself the same question lately. Our bond was incredible as well, same story. If it's eating you up inside just do it for you. But when you do you have to forgive yourself too. Ask yourself for forgiveness no matter the outcome. Whatever you did is in the past. You are not your past self, we constantly grow.

User Profile: Mellifluous11
Mellifluous11 May 7th, 2021

@carefulTalker2440 there's a quote that I wanna share with you-- fear is temporary. Regret is forever.

If it's something that is holding u back from being happy then be honest about it and take responsibility. Coz that way u won't be keeping this regret with you Forever. And if u surrender to this fear of his hate towards you and don't apologize then maybe his hate will grow more right? I hope make sense to you. Have a good day dear♥️ hugs🤗

User Profile: carefulTalker2440
carefulTalker2440 OP May 7th, 2021

Thankyou so much guys for your input. So update.... I DID IT. I called him up and apologized. He was shocked and he said it’s all okay and honestly I feel better, I feel more at peace that I was able to let it all out.

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User Profile: Mellifluous11
Mellifluous11 May 7th, 2021

@carefulTalker2440 YAAAAAAYYYY 🤗🤗♥️♥️ HUGS HUGS AND LOTS OF HUGS 🤗♥️

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