Stuck
My partner and I have been together nearly 10 years. She is about 10byears my senior. In the beginning, we discussed possibly marriage, buying property and moving, vacations, etc. Now when these topics come up, she always has a reason/ excuse why she won't move or get married, even going on vacations have stipulations. To some, this is no big deal. However, to me this is a big deal because these are things I have been planning for since I was real young. Now I feel my dreams have been shatterd and my plans have abruptly changed. Any advice is appreciated. Thank you on advance and be well!
When u ask her to sit down and talk to you about making these decisions. Do you feel her reasons are real. Also what are the reasons. If this is something that you have always wanted and she was aware of it. She has to be honest with you. You deserve the truth
She tells me that she never really wanted to move or doesn't see herself moving full time. She also says that she never saw herself getting married again. I am not really sure why she said all this in the first place. Did she think that was appropriate because the relationship was new and I would change my mind?