Stuck

I feel stuck, everyday I do the same thing , get up do chores do my work and than welcome my other half home play games make dinner go to bed repeat. In that order ive picked everything up around the house and don't ask my other half for anything accpt to take the dog out at night, they still are unhappy with life or as they say work life. The thing is though they work to support me going to school so I can provide a better life for them that was the deal. Some how I feel like I'm not doing enough to hassen those steps toward our better future though. It been brought up many times that they are so beaten down and they don't feel like they have enough time during the week to do what they want even though I've picked everything up from house chores to the dog. I've tried showing understanding and or support but it dosnt get through. I have tried giving advice but I get shot down. I've tried just listening when they complain and get accuse of being bored and or not paying attention to them. I don't know what to do im lost and all I do is try I want to give up ... I feel so much pressure when it come to them mentioning my school, they hate their job so much that when I get a low grade or have to do something over I feel guilty and stressed to graduate sooner so they don't have to deal with anything anymore. Even now when they call me on break they are so upset or negative they just hang up now instead of waiting to hear I love you back. I feel like I'm losing them and I don't know how to fix it.