Stuff happening with my uncle!!! (BIG TW)
So I have no idea where else to post this so here we go. AGAIN TRIGGER WARNING. Okay so basically, my uncle and I kinda have this… thing going on. We’ve done sexual stuff a few times. He’s M37 and I’m F17. It’s been happening since I was 16. I first got high with him in September of 2021 when I was 16 and we had sex once or twice that week. Two weeks ago I wasn’t under the influence of anything and I had oral sex with him. I want it to happen again. I’ve told my bf (we’ve been dating for almost 6 months and it’s an online relationship) and he doesn’t want me even in the same bed with my uncle, understandably. But I want to have sex with him. He told me he does too. And earlier when I was telling my uncle this he said (and I don’t remember exactly word for word bc this was on Snapchat) to basically respect my bf’s wishes and that it’s hard for him too and he wants me to kind of be his gf on the side… I don’t know what to do I’m so stressed and confused and… angry at myself. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Once you make a decision after thinking and understanding the situations.. go with it. But never ever regret it or stuck with it in future, whatever the decision could be.
It's definitely not good to be in a romantic or sexual relationship with your uncle. You should end that while you can before it spirals out of control and everyone finds out about it. You should really think about how this would realistically play out in the future and the consequences of continuing down this path. I'm not sure what happened in your life that led you to this point, but I hope you know that it's not too late to change.
Best wishes, Cain
