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Verbal abuse! - What shall I do next?

User Profile: lostsoul567890
lostsoul567890 May 5th, 2021

I've been dating for almost 2 years. It was a serious relationship even his family knew about me. But few months back my bf verbally abused me & even said shit about my & my sister's character. I still continued with him because he said he realised his mistake & then again when we fought I was crying & he said he doesn't care if I'm crying & after that he didn't talked to me for a month & when I asked him why he said he was just giving me time to come over all this. Since then it's been 4-5 months we are not talking with each other but yesterday I was going through the chats where he abused me & I realized he abused my parents too in that. I compromised with my self respect but I can't hear a single word for my parent. But I know he has anger issues & he forgets with whom he's talking when he's angry & idk what to do next. Please help me in this.

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User Profile: moquila
moquila May 5th, 2021

Only you can decide whether the relationship is worthy to keep. As an outsider who doesn't really know the whole circumstance as well as your honest true feelings, I'd say your bf is more trouble than he's worth and if it were me, I'd probably already demand a breakup. But as I said before, the decision is all yours. If you decide to stick with him, maybe you can advise him to start working on anger management therapy.

User Profile: lostsoul567890
lostsoul567890 OP May 5th, 2021

Yeah. Even I'm thinking of breaking it up. Thanks a lot❤️