Want to leave brand new relationship
Hi! Looking for advice for anyone who might have experience here…
I just started a new relationship (2 weeks ago) after 3 months of dating.
Recently, I can feel myself recoiling and becoming extremely disinterested. It makes me sad because he is basically perfect.
this is my first relationship after a 5 year and emotionally taxing relationship.
I think I have developed some commitment and intimacy issues because of my last relationship.
even worse, I wonder why my brain tricked me and this beautiful poor guy into thinking I was ready for this.
help
please
its more complicated because we share a best friend
thanks
@willingCamp6726,
might be that you simply are not ready yet for a new relationship.
Quite a few people "talk" themselves into a relationship, because they have a need they think can be fulfilled by the other person. Like feeling lonely, low self-esteem, feeling weak whereas the other is perceived as being strong.
If you feel genuine love, not "Hollywood" love, like a deep genuine true unconditional love for self and others, after the "honeymoon" days are over, you wouldn't have any doubts.
I don't see why having a mutual friend matters. True friends won't take sides.