What do i do
My boyfriend beats me up saying i disrespect him by the way i talk to him.i have 3 scars from his beating and he will tell me that i derseve it because i provoke him.we've been together for 5 years we have a 2 years old son.i dont know what to do.i love him yes but i cannot continue like this my son have to witness this kind of abuse please help me
@powerfulWillow6210
We are glad you have reached out for support. First, know you are not alone. Domestic abuse can happen to anyone, regardless of age, race, gender, wealth, or sexuality, and there are many people who want to help you. Secondly, it is not your fault. No matter what has lead you to this point, you are not to blame for the abuse you are currently going through.
Domestic abuse is not a situation that can be solved easily, and often requires a lot of assistance. It is important to seek professional help. We can assist you in locating a therapist that is geographically close to you.
You can check the following sites for more information about resources available in your area.
For resources in the US, UK, and Canada: https://www.thehotline.org/
For American survivors living outside the US: https://www.866uswomen.org
For international Domestic Violence agencies: https://www.hotpeachpages.net/a/countries.html
You can also consult the 7 Cups training guide on how to survive domestic abuse here: https://www.7cups.com/domestic-assault-survivor/
I really hope you find these rescources helpful and you will seek for the appropriate support that you need and deserve. You are strong and inspiring! Congratulations for taking the initiative to help yourself and reach out here! Stay well!
@powerfulWillow6210 Break up with him.