Why tf am I alone?
So I just found out one of my close friends started dating someone, and tbh is hit me hard. They were my last single friend and one of my closest and already I feel like I'm gonna be stuck as a third wheel again. Everyone i know is finding a person that's special and they can rely in and ik like why the hell am I still stuck here alone. I don't think I'm a bad guy, but for pete sake I'm 22 and have never been on a date. I've tried to find a person, I've even had opportunities, but it's always been with people that I knew from the get go wouldn't be healthy. So here I am one again seeing my close friends find some one to rely on. And I'm sitting here feeling lost and alone and pissed off that i haven't been able to find someone who I get along with and is interested in me. F*CK. AM J JUST AN UNLOVABLE BASTARD? AM U JUST STUCK BEING A LONELY THIRD WHEEL? WHERE THE F*CK IS THE PERSON FOR ME?
Hi Jack, so sorry to hear about your situation. There is no time designed for any of us to make a girlfriend/boyfriend. While some of us can have their first relationship when they are really young, others will have it at a certain age. The question you should ask is the following, what i’m i doing to find a gf/bf? Do i visit some places like libraries or things you enjoy doing, or talking with that neighbor in the elevator, or maybe join that book club, or going to that restaurant/pub, etc. I assure you, you are as lovable as any of us, tou deserve love and you will find it for sure. If you feel like you want to find someone start moving, start exploring, start talking to people, i assure the results will come. Stay safe! Lots of love!
Hi! I understand how youre feeling, it's not really great. For what is worth i had my first boyfriend at 23yrs old and I felt exactly the same, like no one loved me, no one wanted me, i felt kind of worthless in a sense. But just when I was giving up on myself, I found him. I was not looking for a relationship, it just happened (same for him, since he just got out of a long term relationship). I think good things can come to your life, if youre honest and open on what's to come. Don't lose faith, i know it's hard, but you can make it. You're strong and you'll find someone that loves you just the way you're eventually.
@Jack307 I think you will find someone when your not looking I think you should focus on other things i mean i know it sucks that you're single but you can't control that the only thing I can suggest is you try meet up groups or dating sites Good luck.
