abandonment
i feel like the closer i am to someone the more i try to push them away. i wont follow what they want from me, or ill make snide remarks all the time. i do it to my parents, my friends, my lovers. however, when im pushed away i feel like im being abandoned. like my parents are disappointed in me. my friends and my lovers leave me. how can i improve on these issues
Sometimes we might do this to protect ourselves so we don't get hurt at all.
Hello Try to figure out why being close to someone makes you step back. What makes you feel abandon? Figure out what will make you happy and think before making snide remarks.
@CreamRoll
You might want to watch the movie Good Will Hunting, you might be able to relate with it ... its a defense mechaism that you do unconsciously to prevent yourself from getting hurt ...
I feel ya lady! Same shoes, you've been abandoned, and have to go back to that horrible moment that broke your heart. Take back sense of self, from where you broke, core changes. If u can do it ease let me know?