how to deal with a toxic environment at work?
What should you do when someone is yelling at you for nothing? About nothing, I meant that person knows no one will be on your side, that person created a lot of isses and non sense speech aout you, that person wants to feel important, that person thinks that yelling/shouting at someone who is weaker than them makes her stronger.
My story is very long. So I just give an overoall view of the problem. That person hates me very much, she talks shit behind my back, she created some drama that lead all the people in my company turn their back on me. As I don't have a fake mask at work so it's difficult for me to lie, to involve, to pretending with fake relationship at work. It is easy for her to do that all kind of things.
When people created a group chat just to talk shit about me, ignore me, I was all find with that. But yesterday was the worse when she yelled at me, I couldn't suffer anymore, I was suffocating. I wanted to cry but luckily I hold my tears back. I am just lost. Facing this reality is really hard. I lost my trust in people.
Dear hannah I'm Soo sorry your going thru this awful work experience. I understand I went thru it last 2 years after I'd put up with the same from my co worker for a very long time. I was putting up with it because I had kids and needed my job. But something awful happened during all this and I was diagnosed with CPTSD and I was crushed by this person at the job to the point my Dr put me on medical leave. I did try to get help from superiors but sadly they wouldn't help me. I was not in a stable position to go back so I left my job. I'm sharing because I want you to know your not alone in your experience. If you can try the human resources dept. See if they can help. I don't have great answers for you I'm sorry. But I get it and I feel your pain. The workplace seems to be full of these types of ppl. I admire your fighting back and trying . My ❤️goes out to you....ABB
@amiableBlackberry92 Thanks for sharing your own experience. Now I know that I'm not alone. Mine was less tough than you as I don't have a lot of pressure, but it is really a challenge for me to overcome. I'm happy knowing that you left that job. I know a very simple quote and would love to share with you: "when a door closes another door opens". My heart is with you. 