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relationship anxiety!

User Profile: JMN26
JMN26 February 2nd, 2021

hey guys :) - my bf of four years has liked his exes pics. I told him it made me uncomfortable and thus far he stopped... I’m unsure how to feel tho. (Background!) - I was in a friend group with him and her and others before

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User Profile: JMN26
JMN26 OP February 2nd, 2021

I would like to have titled this - what do I do! - he gets me flowers, I’ve know him since high school were in college, we wear matching bracelets, he takes me on dates, he constantly compliments me but I can’t get over this one little thing :/

User Profile: GreenApple44
GreenApple44 February 2nd, 2021

I have been in a relationship for 3 years now, and I can say what you did is a good thing. Telling your partner how you feel about something even if it is silly or selfish, that doesn't change the fact that you are uncomfortable about something in this relationship Speaking out your problems is far, far better than bottling it up inside and "pretending" that everything is fine which doesn't benifit anyone Don't be guilty about what you asked, rather be happy that your partner compiled for your comfort In society, generally one is expected to be open minded and trustworthy and what you asked for is considered unreasonable But every person has the right to feel what they are genuinely feeling rather than pretending So don't feel bad, be happy that your boyfriend is better than most others 💙

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User Profile: JMN26
JMN26 OP February 2nd, 2021

You are right, i don’t feel bad about bringing up my feelings but how would I go about letting it go? Because I don’t want it to bother me, and let something so small like social media affect us

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