Accepting fetish?

I’ve tried everything to get help it feels towards getting rid of my fetish, would it just make more sense to accept it? I feel miserable because of it but I’m not sure what else to do now besides just accept. I know I already posted about it here but I just don’t know where else to go. I don’t know anyone else like me who was happy trying to cure themself, so I guess it might be a good idea to accept myself for who I am. I’m just afraid of more judgement. This is somewhat a vent I suppose but I also just don’t know what would be a good idea: hating myself but being an acceptable member of society or loving myself and being seen as a horrible person. It feels like there’s no good outcome