Caught feelings for a fling
I’ve had a mutual crush on a guy for a years now and it so happens that we were both single towards the end of the year.We got together and things got sexual and now it feels like he’s no longer interested in me while I feel even more interested after what happened.
He makes little to no effort to talk to me and it hurts that he doesn’t like me like that.
That really sucks, especially since you've been crushing on him for years now. You probably feel used and disappointed. That's why I think it's best to not get sexual with someone before they've committed themselves to you (and vice versa). It will help protect your heart in the future. If a guy is truly interested in you, he will wait for the sexual aspect without rushing things. If he's not interested in waiting for sex, he either doesn't respect you and/or isn't interested enough in you to pursue a real relationship.
I guess it's okay to hide these feelings.
After all during these times our focuses are elsewhere because it's Christmas.
After this collision of feelings you will notice that everything is alright so let's just behave ourselves as this is our only solution to a broken heart.
