Do I need to break up?
l love my bf I really do, I find him the most attractive and he's also being a very good boyfriend in general. But when it comes to making love...I'm not satisfied. It feels like I'm being needy, but often we only have it like once every 5 days and for me it's not enough. In my life I only had one orgasm and that was with a one night stand...I don't want to break up because of it, but it is important to me. My love language is physical touch. I know that his love language is acts of service and gift giving, so I'm always trying to satisfy his needs. He satisfy me when it comes to acts of service and gift giving, but not physical touch and that's the thing I need the most.
Hey girl! Look I know guy can't sometimes satisfy us woman sometimes when it comes to the language of physical intimacy. My boyfriend has trouble performing in the bed, so I know the feeling! I think trying to be more nice to him by saying more flirting things will help set the mood. I myself try to be more flirty and try my best to be extra "nice" to him in bed. My bf does give me a lot of gifts too but there is only so much he can do to satisfy me. I myself try to be more "active" in the bedroom and I noticed he's been more physical with me. It really depends on how u approach him. I think also talking with him about this is gonna help a lot.
