How to get more of what I want?

I am not the most masculine guy though I am still about average (probably), so when It comes to sex i like to have a woman be in control sometimes. Lately I have wanted to have sex with a woman who can be a femdom. I want to get more experience with a woman taking full control and doing what she wants to me. Are there any femdoms that could speak to how a guy can ask a woman to do that to him for a night?