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I age regress and I'm tired of being sexualized

User Profile: milkandcake
milkandcake April 27th, 2016

I don't like sex. I don't like being sexualized for having a younger mentality and I can't even help it. Why does everything have to be sexualized? Why are things meant for kids supposed to be sexy? Why can't I be myself without getting hit on? I'm upset...

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User Profile: PacificSunrise
PacificSunrise April 27th, 2016

@milkandcake I can feel your frustration especially when everywhere you turned there seem to be an expression of sex everywhere. We see this a lot in advertising and tv and even worse when we see some people within our community express these things. We don't have control over what people do and think, we do however have control over ourselves. Perhaps these questions might be able to guide you:

What can you do to minimize exposure to sources that use sex as an expression?

Where can you find group of people who respect individuality rather than use sex as a form of social approval?

How can you say no when it comes your way?

I hope you feel better. May you find peace in all of this.

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User Profile: milkandcake
milkandcake OP April 27th, 2016

@PacificSunrise

Thank you. I'll try to find answers to those questions when I can. :c

User Profile: lazyKatz
lazyKatz July 25th, 2020

@PacificSunrise

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