I need help /:
Okay so, lately I've been feeling super alone and I haven't done anything sexual with anyone for over a year. I want to have someone that I can be friends with "benefits" I guess it would be. Someone I can just be friends with and have an online sexting type deal with them you know? That way I won't be alone and I won't have to struggle with not having any form of sex/sexting.
What do you think I should do?
@Lazyguy101 it sure would suck to be you. wow you want a perfect world and if it isn't going to happen, your life is just the pitts' at least you are honest so i will be honest too.
it seems to me if this is resally what you want, then you better be confident, loving life and loving yourself, even at your alone time, i mean being confident about yourself. i am a woman and i would much rather be for the casual relationship, but only if the guy is what i just got through describing. i sure would not nwant anmybody needy or dripping with depression no way! the partner that is equal in gaining that type of relationship is probably going to be very secure, strong minded, and together. you are so abstact in wanting this type of relationship, that u8nless you change the downer attitude, you may just end up dating yourself for awhile. maybe you could start by getting differnt user name, just saying.
@Lazyguy101 You didn't say it directly in your post, but it sounds like you could very well want more than a friends with benefits situation. The only reason I say this is that I have a hard time believeing that sexually engaging with someone at a distance (sexting) will fill your loneliness void. At any rate, I would be interested to know more about why you are craving the distance piece? Why not pursue a physical face-to-face relationship? Just curious...I would be more than willing to talk with you more about any of this as mys pecialty is relationships and sexuality. Best to you!
