Insecure about my fetishes
So I'm into quite a few fairly taboo things and I know my girlfriend isnt into any of them and even though she says shes ok with anything I feel like she'll be weirded out if I am completely honest with her so I'm not sure what to do
Baby steps...if you go all out all at once it may be quite shocking for a more typical sexual palette...if you ease into it, make sure to COMMUNICATE. Verbal consent, reading body language, not being afraid to double check...checking in afterwards. Unless you can confidently assure she is comfortable with every step you both may feel weird about it. But fetishes are a common part of sexuality. She could be hiding some from you. The key is OPEN and DILLIGENT COMMUNICATION. If she not into the first little bit, then you know you not with the right person for that. But if she into it, could be a lot of fun
I understand the struggle, ‘cause I’m kinkier then my boyfriend. The advice I could give you is slowly introduce her to the things you like and maybe, if you feel up to, try to explain why you like this things. Open and Honest Communication is the key with kink, fetishes, etc., so it’s important to be honest with her, but you don’t have to say everything all at once. Hope I helped