I think I like girls?
I have a boyfriend that I'm really happy with and attracted too, I'm always turned on by him but he doesn't always satisfy (I don't cum often) and I often find myself thinking about girls and how a girl would do it/if she would make me feel what he can't. I even messaged a random girl online just to sext a bit and it really turned me on, I would have met up with her if she lived in my area but she didn't. Does this mean I like girls? Should I experiment behind my boyfriends back? He would never understand. Thanks
Thanks for sharing!
I think if you're unhappy in the bedroom it's always a good idea to talk to your partner about it first. Honestly a lot of guys grow up thinking that all they need to do is get it inside and that's it, so it's really up to you to guide him to the right spots, in the right ways. Communication is so important for a healthy relationship so if you're not telling him how, where and when it feels good, how's he can't know. Another thing to mention is if you find yourself sexually attracted to both men and women then that would indeed make you bisexual.
I would encourage you to experiment with your partner rather than someone else, and perhaps think about how you might feel if he was cheating on you before you make any decisions you may regret, but ultimately it's up to you what you do and if you think it's a good idea, there's nothing else stopping you.
@MySweetShadow thanks a lot this really helped :)
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No problem at all! :)
@dxpressedxanaxious911 I'm a guy, so take this for what it's worth. Whether you're bisexual or not, it seems you like your boyfriend, so the immediate problem is to improve your relationship with him. You don't say how old you are, but if he's young, I can guarantee you that he only knows how to stick it in and satisfy himself. My guess is, you need more foreplay.
I'll take what the previous post said and be more explicit. Your goal, and his goal, should be to make you cum before he gets inside you. You know what you would do by yourself, so tell him how to help. This is not a time to be shy about telling him what you need. If I'm reading this situation correctly, you'll both be more satisfied. Good Luck.
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Yes you should expermiment behind his back btw i am bi
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they say sexuality's fluid. maybe you're bisexual now. that sexuality could change, with respect to time, maybe. or maybe it is a sexuality that will carry on for the rest of your life. regardless, just find people who will appreciate your sexuality.
I read that most women are attracted to girls at some time or other, and can lean to being bisexual....
I have recently spoken to my husband about exploring girls ( was already sexting a girl too ) and he is fine with it. He understands that this is something I want to do at this time in my life. Maybe it's just a phase...who knows..but I think it's good to just go with your feelings. As long as no one gets hurt and there are no secrets...it should be good for you to express these feelings....
Just my opinion though.
Here to talk if you need to....
Emma.x
@sympatheticGrapes4158 I agree w/u. I'm 32 and married, but I've experimented in my younger years w/women. I'm not bisexual, but a sexual fantasy of mine is to be w/a woman and my husband at the same time. No feelings involved.