Performance Anxiety
Hey, I’ve been dating this girl who I really like and we have a really good strong connection. The only problem is that everytime were about to have sex my dick gets soft. I really want to have sex and I really like her so I don’t know why it gets soft. I did some research and I think I can have performance anxiety. I overthink a lot and I get really nervous when it comes to having sex. We can make out and cuddle and I can get hard but every time we’re about to do it I get nervous and my dick gets soft. Does anyone have any tips or suggestions? I don’t want to see my doctor yet since I’m not gonna be close to him for a really long time.
Hi, I’ve had this happen to me in the past and currently still today sometimes. If you haven’t already, I would suggest being open about it to the girl and let her know what you’re thinking. A positive response from her could help ease your mind.
Hey, I’ve already been open to her about it and she assured me that she still likes me and that she doesn’t mind to much. It still happens tho even tho I feel comfortable with her and really want to do it. I don’t know why I just start overthinking every time it’s about to happen.