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Shy about my fetiche.

User Profile: Booklover95
Booklover95 March 29th, 2018

I'm extremly shy about posting this but I never had someone that I could speak to about this.

With time I realised I have some sort of fetiche for really "manly" guys. By "manly" I mean really sweet and caring as in personality , even actually quiet guys and very peaceful, but physically I go crazy for guys with a good beard, broad shoulders, good jaw line. Basically guys with a bit more of a mature figure and that give a very protective figure.

I've been trying to figure out why I like this though. I'm extremly short and super petite so you would think I wouldn't like that type of people... yet I do.

My boyfriend is one of these guys. Sometimes I really admire him and intimily I never felt so good with someone ever (to be fair is my first healthy sexual relationship).

Also because of his apperance I love when he goes dominant and I'm submissive. Although in the bedroom we go really kinky he's very loving aswell. He spends time saying how much he loves me in the middle of it, and spoils me with kisses.

My question is, is it normal? Is it normal to have such a particular fetiche for guys like this? This probably seems silly....

Anyways thanks for reading.

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User Profile: TaranWanderer
TaranWanderer March 29th, 2018

@Booklover95 Short answer: I think it's really normal!

Honestly to me, this just seems more of having a "type" rather than a fetish. It's totally normal to be more attracted to certain appearances and demeaners. And you know, it really does make sense, if you're small and feel like more of a submissive person, having someone to complement that and be the bigger, dominant person (with traditionally "dominant" or "manly" features)..there's nothing weird or silly about that at all smiley You like what you like! (plus, if your boyfriend is this type of person, and is also so kind and sweet to you, it makes sense that it would make him & others who are the same type to seem even more attractive!)

And really..I think those are things that a lot of people find attractive. Having a beard, strong jaw line, broad shoulders...those are things that people who are called "attractive" in the media have--often being shown as what an "ideal man" looks like, so if anything they're really common things to like!

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User Profile: Booklover95
Booklover95 OP March 29th, 2018

@TaranWanderer

thank you so much! I felt so much more at ease :)

Is really sweet having someone that doesn't judge and is kind giving advice. I hope you have a wonderful day!

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