should I have first time sex?
I met him online about two years ago and we've been dating for a year and a half. I'm finally traveling to meet him in the coming weeks and we've talked about sex. I'm a virgin and was raised in a Christian home. Ive been taught that sex is reserved for marriage, however I haven't been super committed to religion lately anyway. I really like the guy think I might want to have sex with him, but I just can't decide if I'm ready for it or if it's something that would lead to regret later on. Any advice?
@iexistok. maybe discuss it with him and see how he feels
I know he really wants to as well, but doesn't want to force me to do anything
@iexistok well my friend got pregnant with someone from a dating app but I would be careful to use protection etc good luck
@iexistok
Well like my friend told me "There's no right or wrong choice. There are only consequences of the choice." If you wish to pursue that path and take that step, then you should not be afraid to do so if it makes you happy.
I would wait till I'm committed to someone because it's more special that way but I cant make the decision for you . My advice would be just follow your heart and trust your gut in this case .Sex should be with someone who trust and love it's a huge deal and shouldn't be given to anyone who doesnt feel the same way. Maybe talk to him about this before you do anything just to make sure hes on the same page. I wish you both many years in your relationship filled with happiness 🙏