the gravity
i've never had sex. but i always felt condoms were stupid and pointness, when i watched porn videos. if anything, i felt it was easy for the dude to slip it off while having intercourse or something. they just look so uncomfortable and stuff.
that's just one of many things i underestimated, with respect to sex. I also underestimated the woman's role in sex too. that latter underestimation can lead to unwanted sex, i guess.
and unwanted sex is a major issue, even because of STD/I. when you think about it, unwanted sex can kill.
some time ago when someone was reviewing a story of mine, that someone brought up the phrase "rape fantasy." I usually just ignore those types of feedback, but i tackled her review instead. unwanted sex is definitely something i don't want to promote nor have people associate with me. the idea of "rape fantasy" might be making money in porn films and erotic media, but the realization of that idea is very dangerous, i feel.
it's a gravity that some people normalize or casually laugh about. but with the advanced and lethal STD/Is going around, unwanted sex is definitely not something to underestimate or think lightly of. and in some cases, forcing unwanted sex is technically taking someone's life.
@redCanine3669 I really agree with you .
@nevaehhh
thanks.
when i was in high school, my class had to attend some seminar about STD/Is. at the time, i thought it was a bit strange and silly. but now that i think about it, i think that seminar saved my life and many others'.