3 months too soon to divorce?
I married to the love of my life after 4 years of relationship, he and i had our ups and downs but we loved each other and our families were very supportive to our relationship. Everything was good and going well until his ex turned up, I'd never heard of her before although we had discussed our past relationships in detail while dating. It seems they were always in contact as "just friends" but now he cannot love me anymore because he loves her and is emotionally invested in her. But he can't leave me either because we live in a society where divorce is frowned upon. It's been just 2.5 months since our wedding and now I don't know what to do anymore
i’m so sorry that you are going through this.
i think you should have a deep conversation with him. Ask him who is it going to be “me or her”. If he’s already set on the ex then leave and do yourself a favor while your relationship is still fresh. I would find a man who will make me his everything. You don't want to end up still doubting yourself and questioning your husbands love for you after 20 years right?
wondering why the best of you was not good enough for him, the intimacy issues it has caused and you know that it’s because you are not her..
you want a man that looks at you and you have no doubt that it’s you he wants to see. You want a man that says he loves you more than anything else in the world and you have no doubt he means what he says.
good luck! ❤️