7 years and idk
Hi, I'm still new in this patform & I want to get some advice related to my relationship problem. Last night become the worst night for me, I can't even take a sleep because thinking about me and my bf. We have been together almost 7 years, he become one of the best thing that ever come in my life, everytime we had a conflict, we will try our best to settle it out. Yesterday he went out for work, we usually will contact after he back from work and I finish my class (I'm university student).
Last night, he contact me with tired voice, from the day 1 I know him , he did not like to share any problem he faced to other people even his own family. He said to me that he tired with everything, with work, people and even with myself. It really break my heart to know the truth where he said, he dosen't have any feeling towards me anymore for a few days we contact. When I said why, he said I need to fix all of this problem and what i can see he try to blame me of all the problem happen in our relationship.
I want to get some advice on what should I do now to fix myself if it was really my fault. Is it okay if I said we need to take a break from each other? I really confused right now. Thank you for reading my thread 
@iqi i would try couples consueling it could maybe save the relationship or go to individual counseling and see if maybe that might help but maybe for now try with no contact till your able to fiqure out if you can save this relationsip or not Good luck.
@iqi hi, i think that it is important that you know that it wasnt your fault. if you were kind and loving to that person, then you did all you had to. you seem like an amazing person and i am sure that everything will end up well.