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Hi, I’m Bethany. I am currently in a relationship that I feel has ended. He is currently with his second baby momma having a child. He found out after we started dating she was pregnant. He claimed for a while no way it’s his.. so I fell more for him. Then I found out they cheated with each other on their wife/husbands. Then I found out she lived with him before I did. Then he went to her baby shower, and I found her shirt In his luggage. I didn’t know they were staying in the same air bnb. Now he is with her, and not talking to me. I asked him if he would, cause he promised, and he got mad at me cause he had a lot going on. Then that led to him saying he loved who I used to be. Now he won’t reply to me. I asked what he was thinking and told him I’d give him space. I feel so lost, confused, and I think this has been a verbally abusive relationship. And now I’m ashamed, scared, just a lot. I need help
Dear Bethany, i admire your courage greatly. You might be feeling a lot of emotions right now, and you must be so overwhelmed with all this. But please I request you - do-not feel ashamed. Ashamed of what? Wanting love? Wanting loyalty? Wanting to build a strong loving relationship? What he did, whatever his reasons are, is not justified at all. It’s okay to feel lost and confused about all this happening, sooner or later it’ll be better :) I hope you find the strength, you already have in you ❤️ If you want to talk it out, you can text me anytime
Id love to talk this out more
