Am I being stupid?
So me and this guy I guy I used to date started talking again about a year ago. Shortly after we started talking again I realized I was in love with him. After some more time I told him and he told me he felt the same. We didnt date again but we did have a little something again. After 5 months he told me he just wanted to be friends and I was devistated. Its been 3 months and Im still really upset. But recently we started to sleep together, deffinetly not keeping to the whole just being friends thing. He still wants to date other people but he also wants to sleep with me still. Im in love with him and only sleeping with him kills me inside, but I dont want to stop because I get to be close with him. Am I being stupid because of that?
@Deadlittlesoul your not stupid but your choice might make you end up getting hurt or rejected
@Deadlittlesoul Not necessarily but this may end up with you being very hurt. It appears he does not feel the same way and you'll have to decide what you'll accept.
@Deadlittlesoul
You might want to talk to him about it. When you say "Sleep with him", do you mean literally sleep together or are you engaging in sexual activities? I don't mean to pry, but if you find you're uncomfortable doing the latter in this current situation, you probably shouldn't be doing that. But if that's not what you meant, then just ignore this statement. Lol.
But honestly? It still applies. You're not happy doing this when he wants to date other people, so I don't recommend really doing it at all? You're setting yourself up for more heartbreak and expectations in the long run. But as I said in the beginning, talk to him about it and how it's making you feel. If he's a good guy, he'll understand. If he ain't... Then... Well.... You know he ain't worth anything.