Am I wrong?
Me and my boyfeiend has been together off and onn for 9 years and has two kids together. We're currently on and i felt like everything been pretty ok but as usual i get bling sided. He has been home feom work due to an injury on his job and has also been with the kids while I work. Now before this accident we never really have the same days off but for some reason everytime i was off he had off but with my my days off are pre set so i have my days set up in advance most of the time to catch up on appointments for myself and the kids. Friday I approached him because i felt that his energy was off so i came to him and sai babe i can feel your energy and its very of i know between your injury your job and the lawyers its been stressful for you. Tell me how your feeling are you ok where gave your thoughts been. He says im fine. And i tell him i know he isn't cuz i can literally feel it in my body and its off putting. So i drop cuz he wasn't ready to talk. I ask him if he would like to watch a movie he says for what im like its been some time since we got to hang out. So he ask why now why do i wanna hangout now. And i tell him the same thing again plus i was off the next day so i have time and don't have to go to sleep early. After him basically blowing me off i just leave alone and hangout with the kids the remainder of the night. Next day we go pick up his friend cuz were going to the creek with my bf family. As we pull up tonhis friend house i ask for a kiss and he gives it to me but it was definitely...
part 2.... Lacking emotion i drop it and continued to try to like be flrty with him and he tells me im being weird and blows me off again. So the remainder of the day everyone enjoys their day but we barely say anything to each other all day until we get home. When we get home i ask again whata wrong and he say im not gonna tall about it cuz ur just gonna feels some way and get mad and you only wanna talk cuz you feel like its tiwarda u. And i tell him thata not true because i didnt realize it was towards me til today cuz how youve been treating me. He goes to tell how hes fine with everyone but me and i ask him why and he still keeps me in the dark so i tell him i dont wanna hear anything later cuz im no mind reader and i dont wanna hear dont i dont try to liaten ti you cuz hear i am tryna to resolve an issue that i had to figure out on my own. It was alot of argueing aftee that. He felt i don't spend enough time with him or initiate anything and i feel like i do initiate stuff and im the busy one most of the time and hes always playing the dam video game and as much as he saya he initiate things it always seems like sex. But do you initiate hanging out? Do you initiate doing anything else with each other no he doesn't? And this isnt the first time he felt like im not doing my part but when i asked of he thought he was doing his best at everything he said yea and when i told he wasn't he still couldnt understand. He always wants me to change for his wants and needs but never ask about mine