An Unhappy 5 years Relationship
Hey it's Leo. I am from a small country near India called Bangladesh. I am here to tell you guys a story of a break up that happened only because of my first trip with my friends.
We were happy. Sure relationship had it's its ups and downs but that's part of the relationship. We had our differences but we loved and accepted our flaws. According to me, we were happy, we were glad with each other no matter how Pain ful life can get. So it was her birthday, I gave her some flowers and a nice hand bag so that she can carry it while moving to Canada for her studies. I was gonna come anyway but it would have taken time. Immediately after her birthday I went on a trip with my friends.( Yes it was a hangover trip)
By that time I had the best time of my life with my friends and for a part I was glad I had that time. But as my results came out during the trip I was depressed af. I even ignored her because I don't wanna let her get hurt because I was hurt. So I didn't talk with anyone and tried to distract myself with my friends which btw I never did before.
When I came back home I hugged her, I apologized for not talking and I explained why I needed that time. But by that time it was too late. She decided something else. She decided that it's finally time to move on because she was over with my shits. She claimed that she wasn't happy and I do not put any efforts to our relationship and she is the one giving the maximum effort. In my case I believed I was doing my best to make her happy
@LeoPalma13 Hi Leo! Kemon aso vaia? I'm sorry to hear about your breakup and the not-so-good marks. It's OK to allow yourself to feel bad. Healing takes time. You did your best to keep her happy and yet she felt like she was doing all the work alone. Perhaps her expectations were unrealistic and she should have discussed them with you. I don't think you should feel guilty for having a good time with friends. Not being in touch with her for a little while is fine, too. I belive that it's very common to distance oneself from everyone while being depressed. I wish she had been more understanding. Be kind to yourself. :)
@intelligentWheel627 hey Bhaiya. I'm actually having a very hard time rn. but I am seeking hope. Thanks for the heads up!!
@LeoPalma13 I'm actually apu or didi, not that it matters. 😁 I know that you are feeling down right now but seeking help and having hope is a good start. I'm proud of you. Please let me know if I can be of some help. You should never feel alone in 7Cups. There are so many wonderful people here who care.🤗
@intelligentWheel627 im so sorry for the misunderstanding. Yeah I have met many wonderful people here and I'm glad I logged in 7 cups. Sure we can chat. Please let me know when you are free ♥️
@LeoPalma13 It's alright! I'm not a listener, I'm a member just like you. If you want then you can keep writing posts here and I or anybody else who is reading them will reply as soon as we can. Or if you prefer to find a listener for 1 - 1 chat then you can do that, too.
