Breaking up with her
I've been in this relationship with a girl who used to be my friend but she asked me out. Im not sure if im a lesbian or not but i just didnt want to hurt her feelings so i went with it. I didnt love her at first but then i started to love her. January 1 i decided that its for the best if we broke up. I didnt want that but i know that i wont be happy with her. That was a mistake i made. I feel hurt, guilty, heartbroken. She still talks to me on a daily basis asking me how my day was and how am i feeling. It hurts.. so much. I dont want to tell her that "Hey i miss having you as my girlfriend" or "We should be together again" But i really want to. Any advice?
@kiingtong
You should wait a bit and see if you still feel the same after couple weeks. If you still want to get back with her you should talk to her about why you did broke up with her in the first place and explain to her why your feelings changed.
Explain to her that you needed to understand first whether you made the decision and that it is now on her whether she would like you back.
