Breakup - Ex back
Hi
my ex broke up with me month and half ago
we were friends at the beginning there was huge intimacy and we started a relationship, he was so caring and he wanted a serious relationship with me, I was upset about situation he did and repeatedly doing and I communicated that already
he told that he is not giving 100% to this relation and he wants to end it but keeps me in his life
i refused to stay and turn to a friend and I decided to just leave after I communicated that I wanted this to workout
after a month he knew that my dad had a surgery so he called me from a strange number and texted me
after 2 to 3 days I decided I need to talk with him to know the reasons and also to let the bad feelings go because the whole month and half my heart was really hurt and my brain just drained because of the pain and overthinking
I called him and we met, I let all my thoughts out and he respected that I just want that, but he is flirting and still cares but he didn’t say a word about us back as lovers
he is not ready financially and has habits that need to be changed and that what he works on
idk if I want him or just the safety feeling that keep me want him back
but I’m afraid to lose myself or to be confused
im trying to just leave it to come as it’s but still afraid
Hello! What you describe is not a simple situation. I don't know what he wants to do, but from what you said he broke up with you because he didn't want to try hard enough. Despite this, he wanted to keep talking to you and keeping you as a friend. It seems you still have feelings for this person, but it could be risky to reconnect if their intentions are still the same. Getting back together might work, but only if he learns from his mistakes. So there is no one right answer, would you like to give this person another chance? If so, you should first make sure there are the right conditions to do so. If that's not the case, it might be best to walk away from him and move on. Good luck😊
