Broken
I messed up my relationship and he has moved on and I still can't. I never thought he would walk away but he just fell out of love with me. We were together 2 years and during that time I messed up and sent some inappropriate pictures to some men I know. Turns out, my ex had been snooping in my phone and knew the whole time and never confronted me. Now, we are broken up and he has brought it to my attention and said he doesn't want to work it out ever. He was letting it continue while we were together, now that he ended it I have stopped and wanted to work it out. Why did he just walk away?
Hello, @Duchessbella14
It sounds like you're having a really tough time after this separation and you're struggling to understand why and what really happened. It is indeed a bit confusing that he never confronted you about those texts although he knew about them so you can work this out somehow but maybe that's just his way of dealing with these things. His trust got obviously damaged and perhaps this break-up was what he considered as the best decision for himself and his future. Trust is a delicate issue and it takes a lot of time and determination to rebuild it, some never really manage to and maybe he just didn't feel he had the energy and motivation to do it. I'm really sorry that this mistake of yours got so hard on you but that's how life goes sometimes and there's not much you can do if he doesn't want to work things out.. Perhaps is time for you to focus on yourself and your future and see what you can learn from this experience so that you can figure out what you really want from life and how your behavior or attitude towards certain things could improve. :) Always take it as a positive thing and it will help you grow! Take care and good luck with everything.
@Duchessbella14 I hate to break it to you, but he might have waited and stayed in the relationship with you until he found someone else to spend time with... Some people are nasty like that, they pretend and are searching for another person to be with and only stay because they dont want to be alone... So in the end he simply used you sending pictures to other men as an excuse to leave you, he was probably not in love with you for some time :( I am really sorry