Confused on what to do
Me & the father of my child broke up almost 3years ago I still love him dearly . During our relationship he did something that broke the trust and caused me so much pain. Our relationship was never the same after due to trust issues, postpartum depression and other things taking a toll. After the breakup I began to become bitter & do things to get revenge from the trauma & hurt he caused me. I am now in a better headspace and take ownership for the petty things I have done although he still holds it against me . We are coparenting now & have been talking more but I can still feel the awkwardness sometimes & can tell he is still holding onto the pass. With all of this I still love him & would like for us to try to build back but I’m not sure if it’s possible. Idk if I should hold on & fight for what I want or to just make peace & let it go ????
@selfconfidentGrapefruit3881
Oh yeah... I have been there too with those deep rooted trust issues from the past. I think before you make any moves, maybe try to have an honest and open conversation with your ex to be sure you are both on the same page. If he is not, then you don't want to set yourself up for disappointment. If he is, it will be a lot easier to work together on rebuilding trust.
Take care and just go slow in moving forward ❤️
we have talked & he’s not saying he doesn’t want to get back but more so that he doesn’t know how to move forward & let go of the past so I’m confused on how to take that
